To begin, do not expect this to be step-by-step instructions on how to meet beautiful women. This is not that kind of post. Today, we talk about the definition of beauty and the ways in which we define it.
To start, lets look at this woman:
Yes, she's beautiful. You would bring her back to your place on a Friday night and all of your friends would probably give you high-fives for meeting her, 'catching' her, and claiming her as your own. You'd be admired and respected, right?
Maybe. But is that realistic? Is that really what you're looking for?
The last time I checked, we were looking for a woman, not a status symbol.
Now, lets be real. What is real beauty and what is a real woman?
Gentlemen, I challenge you to broaden your horizons. The woman above is Kate Upton. She's a 20 year old swimsuit model who has been featured in magazines like Sports Illustrated and Esquire. Its obvious why a million men around the world find her beautiful.
But now think about the women in your life. Think about the last girl you took out to dinner. Think about the women you meet in the office or that you see on the street. Think about what catches your eye and delve in beyond the superficial. These women may not be super-models, and they may not cause your friends to cheer and congratulate you upon your arrival, but they are beautiful.
Notice the little things.
Freckles.
A crooked smile.
Beautiful eyes.
Because at the end of the day its not the obvious things that will make her beautiful to you...
It will be the details.
And honestly, who cares what your friends think?
If they are alone at home, on a Friday night, waiting for you to bring someone home for them to judge, odds are that they're all probably single anyways.
Cheers.
--Dapper Chris
You're an excellent writer with deep thoughts. I agree with you completely on this topic. People do need to stop being so shallow and realize that the world's beauty fades in due time.
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